For a successful life you don't need to change your look or style. All you have to do is change how you treat people.
Here is a list:
-You've got to show people you care
-Be kind to people;don't let them down.Tell them how amazing they are.
-Maybe they think nobody cares show them you care.
Now let's say you get a job. Here is a list on how you can do better at work.
-Don't quit because the work is too hard.
-Work harder and improve. You 'll be better off.
-Don't quit because you don't like your boss.
s - Talk to him/her. Ask about their interests you may be surprised.